Is More Better?

Recent games forum discussion has influenced this site a bit lately. First it was the question of how old gamers are, and now it's the old chew toy that is women in gaming. I say old chew toy because it's a subject that yields up hours of discussion and debate on a range of related points, which you can just worry at forever.

This time I'm explaining why I think the idea that more women should play games is a load of complete bollocks. I hear countless stories of guys trying to get their girlfriends into gaming and failing miserably because the girlfriends get bored or dislike it, and I figure they at least have a good reason to try and get a chick to play: it would allow them to play more without the word 'neglect' being bandied about, would mean they would have gaming in common and could enjoy it together, and in a serious relationship would mean justifying games-related purchases would be less of an up-hill battle.

I can also understand why siblings or flat-mates would want to get one another into it. The more gamers in a family or flat the more games will be available in the house and the better the gear will probably be, due to a group-interest-driven set of financial priorities. A multi-gamer household is a fairly logical reason to try and convince someone in that household disinclined to play to give it a try, and lets face it girls are less inclined than guys.

I just don't see why you'd want to get more of either sex to play certain types of games when they don't really want to do, since it doesn't benefit anybody at all. Getting more people (of any sex) into gaming makes sense. More gamers = more money in the industry, more games-related events going on in the world, and more people to have gaming in common with. I just haven't seen a single argument that inclines me to agree that more gamers of a particular sex is a good thing. Sex should be a non-issue in gaming. Gaming is the great equaliser, until people start regarding gamers with or without penises as special. Then it just gets uncool (and sexist).

The funny thing is that logic doesn't seem to apply when people consider gamers. Think about it: the people who were kids and gaming in the 70s, 80s, and 90s are often still gaming. Do people think they've stayed teenagers all this time? A huge number of those early gamers are parents now. Some have kids and others have kids who're now living in their own homes and looking at having their own kids. I don't get how people can miss that fact, unless they assume nobody keeps gaming after the age of 20 or something.

I did play my first video games in the 70s, and then didn't play any in the 80s, but I went back to them in the 90s, and the reason for the gap was I was a party teen, rather than a gamer teen. I got over it when I got over my teens. Talk about being the anti-stereotype!

Oh! I almost forgot: note that we're not talking about gaming as a whole here. I've been told that games like Animal Crossing, Wii Sport, Buzz, Brain training, and SingStar aren't in fact games. They're 'utilities'. Yeah, I know. I don't get that either. This is what I have been told though, and it boggles the mind. We are eliminating all the games most likely to attract women from the discussion, because they apparently don't count as games.

So we're talking about traditional games, of the sort that's been in development since the 90s. We're talking about FPSs, racers, fighting games, flying games, stunt games, adventure games, and the like. The REAL games.

Apparently more women should play them. Why? Well I'm told that on one hand that it's because it would dispel the misconception that gamers are asocial, awkward, spotty, teenage boys. Personally, I think if the fact that there are more 'real' gamers over 24 than under (see The Age of Gaming), and that people like Robin Williams and many other celebrities play games, and that games makes more money each year than Hollywood doesn't dispel misconceptions about gamers then more chicks won't do a bloody thing either. Gamers have misconceptions about gamers, so how are non-gamers supposed to know what the gaming population is like with any degree of accuracy?

They can't. They have no idea. Really, misconceptions about the gaming population is a whole other story, because more female gamers won't help, and we can pretty much ignore that as a reason to get girls gaming.

What else? Another reason is to make gaming more of an 'in' thing to do. I assume this means a more generally and openly acceptable thing to do. Now, I think the 'utilities' I've had to eliminate from this discussion do more good in that direction than more girls gaming can possibly do, because they get grandpa, aunty Elsie, and your dad spending hours playing...sorry, 'utilising' a console, where normally they'd watch TV. I guess because those aren't games (I hope someone told Joe Public that) they don't count, so we need more girls to play. Um, hold on, we already established that it doesn't matter who plays games, because the non-gaming public doesn't notice. Scrap that idea then...

If women want to play 'real' games they do. I do. All but a few of my female friends do. Most don't want to. That's okay too. If they don't want to then they shouldn't. I can see why they shouldn't. I don't like playing team sports. If someone tried to tell me they wanted more women to play netball or softball or rugby, so I should take part I'd tell them where they could get off. If I didn't like 'real' games I'd resent someone trying to get me to play them just to satisfy their idea that we need more ['real'] female gamers.

I don't see any good reason why women should play games that don't appeal to them. To even up the statistics? That's a bad reason. To fulfill a desire some gamers have to have more female gamers around? Also a bad reason. The only good reason to play games is because you love to play them (or you really want to share in your sex-slave's down-time). Anything else is time-wasting. The only reason to want someone else to be into the same games you are is if you have a relationship with them and want to share the love.

Given that these women who 'should be gaming' probably already have great hobbies and sports they take part in (if they have time), I can't see them giving it up for something that doesn't push their buttons. Not for those of you who 'want more female gamers', anyway. You weirdos! :P

I doubt the scrap-bookers post on their forums about how scrap-booking needs more males to partake. I shouldn't imagine that train-spotters discuss how to get more women into the railyards. I'm almost 100% sure that the quilting club doesn't wonder why they can't get more boys interested. I also can't imagine that the developers of Animal Crossing wonder why why more women play their game than men. What's the point? If girls are going to game or train-spot, and if guys are going to scrap-book or quilt (or 'utilise utilities') they will, but what does it matter if most don't? I think people have some kind of idea that girl gamers are rare, and that rarity makes those of us who do game somehow special. We're not. We're gamers, and as much as every girl likes to think she's special, she's not. She's a person. Get over it.

The only people with anything to gain (apart from the boyfriends and flatmates) from more female gamers are the games studio boffins wanting to crack the female gamer market. I don't mean general ('real') games that girls happen to play. I mean the games specifically aimed at girls. The games that aren't games. The 'utilities'. Women will be a very lucrative market, and that makes the money-men behind games publishing drool. That drool has absolutely nothing to do with boobies.

As an aside, some of the people who want more female gamers have a hard-on-related rationale, i.e. chicks are sometimes hot, so more gamer chicks = more hot gamer chicks, therefore we need more female gamers (to increase the odds of hot chicks playing with them). What they don't think about is how utterly humiliating it would be to have your arse handed to you by a hottie, who then proceeds to ignore you because you're a hormone-soaked toe-rag with nothing she wants. Worse yet, she may not want to play with you at all, because you're not in her league, in gaming skill or sex appeal. She may be a complete bitch, you see. After all some girls are complete bitches and the more girl gamers you have the better the odds are that you'll encounter a complete bitch.

In my view gaming does NOT need more girls. It needs more gamers. I really don't give a rat's arse whether they have penises or not. It shouldn't matter. I'm going to repeat my core opinions here for emphasis, so you finish reading this with them in mind:

The only good reason to play games is because you love to play them.

The only reason to want someone else to be into the same games you are is if you have a relationship with them and want to share the love.

1 comment:

Karl Harris said...

I love the fact Jane plays games, it's a neat feeling getting up late on a weekend and finding her playing Wipeout HD on the PS3. We both got into Little Big Plant (and intend to finish it one day) She is not really into the whole social online gaming thing, mind you neither am I..I actually just got her Drakes Fortune to encourage her to play more games.

It's really important for me that I get to game, its my outlet to vent, its been part of me for so long I need gaming...I'm so lucky to be with someone that appreciates that fact and encourages it..unless its my turn to cook dinner :) It's great being able to maintain a balance where I get some gaming done and switch off with ample time to spend that quality time together!